Signorile: ‘Cut The Ageist Crap’ About Tom Daley’s Relationship With ‘Older’ Man. Today, in an often sternly-worded column, Michaelangelo Signorile takes on those who have been bashing the age difference between Tom Daley and his presumed boyfriend, Dustin Lance Black. Daley is 19, Black is 39.
Tom Daley: ‘I’m dating a guy and I couldn’t be happier’. Olympic diver Tom Daley has revealed he is in a relationship with a man. In a YouTube broadcast, the 19-year-old London 2012 bronze medallist said: “In spring this year my life changed massively when I met someone, and they make me feel so happy, so safe and everything just feels great.